








I haven’t spent many saturdays (or weekends at all) for that matter with my kids since before school let out last spring. Yesterday (saturday) I spent the morning with the Brown’s (see abby and greg’s wedding below) at the Alexa Brown Memorial 5K in Clyde. I love when I get to spend time with them and their family and friends – they make me feel good about who I am and lift me up. They are a great example of why we are on this earth. I came home and spent the afternoon with my kiddos – Domino Rally was on tap for a few hours (and now that they are all over the house, I suppose today, too).
Talking with a photographer friend of mine the other day about some frustrations and she directed me to a project she and others have been working on and I kind of had a “duh” moment – when was the last time I just took photographs of my kids being kids? Just playing, and “doing” and “being”? So I did. I used to, and got caught up in all the other stuff I’m doing and I havent in forever. I will treasure these and vow to do it more often. These are how I remember my saturday afternoons as a kid.
I was trying to build a lengthly domino trail for Evan and I kept knocking it down (they don’t put lens IS in dominos, so my lack of steadiness did not get the job done!) and the conversation was as follows:
Me: Evan, I’m sorry. I just cannot get it to balance.
Evan: Mom, here. Read the directions.
Well, that’s the answer when you’re four.
Cant get life to balance? Read the directions.
Not the paper directions, but listen to a friend, your instincts, get back to basics. Keep the dominoes up in every aspect – work, home, family, personal time. When one falls down, it kinda’ makes everything else lose it’s stability.
xo
dani
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